Are You Haunted by Past Relationships? How to Sever the Energetic Ties Holding You Back

Apr 29, 2025

Have you ever felt like someone from your past still has an invisible hold on you, even though the relationship is long over? Maybe you dream about them, feel a deep ache when their name comes up, or sense their presence lingering like a fog you just can't shake. I want you to know - these feelings aren't just in your head. They're real energetic connections that could be draining your vitality right now.

I know this struggle intimately. For 18 years after my divorce, I was caught in an emotional web with my ex-husband. Every thought of him would trigger waves of sadness, anger, or pain that seemed to come from nowhere. I had left the marriage to survive - the stress of living with an alcoholic had made me severely ill. But even though I physically left, the emotional and energetic ties remained, pulling at my heart and draining my energy.

➡️ Here's what I've learned about why we stay stuck in past relationships and how we can finally break free:

👉 Why You Can't Seem to Let Go:

  • Energy Cords: When we connect deeply with someone, our energy fields link up like electrical circuits. These connections don't automatically break when a relationship ends - they keep exchanging energy until we consciously clear them.
  • Hidden Contracts: We make unconscious agreements in relationships (what I call "rules of engagement"). These might be thoughts like "I'll take care of you" or "You'll make me feel loved." These contracts keep running even after the relationship ends.
  • Karmic Patterns: Sometimes our relationships are based on soul-level agreements to help each other learn and grow. Until we complete these lessons, the energetic tie remains active.

✳️ Signs You're Still Energetically Connected:

  • You frequently think about them and replay old conversations
  • Strong emotional reactions surge up when you hear their name
  • You compare new people to them
  • You check their social media even though you don't interact
  • You feel stuck in the past instead of moving forward

💰💰 The Real Cost of These Connections:

These invisible ties aren't just emotional baggage - they're actively draining your energy like apps running in the background of your phone. They can affect your:

  • Physical vitality
  • Emotional wellbeing
  • Business success
  • Ability to form healthy new relationships

The good news is that you don't have to live with these draining connections forever. Through energy healing processes, you can clear these cords, update old contracts, and complete karmic patterns. When I finally did this work myself, the transformation was profound. For the first time in 18 years, I could think of my ex with peace and gratitude instead of pain.

Ready to reclaim your energy and finally break free? I've created a free guide called "10 Signs You Have Unresolved Baggage That's Preventing Your Success." This resource will help you identify the subtle but powerful ways old energetic ties might be affecting your life right now.

Don't let past relationships keep draining your energy and holding you back from the life you deserve. Watch the video below to learn more about how these energetic connections work and how you can finally release them. Your freedom and full vitality are waiting.

🔗 Download my free guide at https://healersu.com/hidden  and take the first step toward true emotional and energetic freedom today.

[Watch or. listen below to discover more about breaking free from energetic ties and reclaiming your full power.  You'll hear my big macaw, Percy, want to join in the conversation.]